It came up as I complained about trying to date. It’s work. It’s like a series of interviews.
I answer, “Someone who it’s easy to be around…where the conversation just flows, and the silences are comfortable.” And we talked about the different kind of friendships we have, and it really did come down to friendship with a layer of desire. That’s pretty much it.
Finding that effortless connection is a rare thing, but it does happen sometimes.
So it exists.
I’ll look again if and when I have the energy. For now, I do not.